Friday, February 12, 2010

Bumps On Head Feel Bruised 10 Yr Old Son Is Very Babyish! I Have A 10 Yr Old And I Feel His Father Babys Him. ANY Time He Bumps His Head,

10 yr old son is very babyish! I have a 10 yr old and I feel his father babys him. ANY time he bumps his head, - bumps on head feel bruised

Accommodation is in the raw hurt, falls, etc., began to cry as he 2, but if you got injured in a football or basketball, he did not "grief at all. If my children have these episodes of our crying, my husband and the excuse to indulge her tears - "it is physically injured, no blood or bruises on the pitch. It makes me crazy! "My son is in a few months of 11 I think it's so immature and I feel that my husband will contribute to the immaturity. To say my husband does not make sense because he is defensively and our son. I have a problem with the children cry when they are really bad, but our son cry for everything, so what really hurt or not. A 10 still sucks his thumb and it's frustrating because I tried to stopBehavior of my husband, I say things like, "Well, I iacta well when I was young, and I understand" or just something, anything, to justify the behavior. I was frustrated and did not know what to do.

7 comments:

Ladonna loves.. said...

I have a son and 10yr a bit like a crier, and is, as soon as she, s mad depends on the school and the teachers cry, then she told him to take a minute to call your car, then who s, back to work .. and my son when he's playing outside, when you cut something, and that his house has managed to get me ... starts teasing at school, children, Don t cry, as a rule at school, at least, cut great .. SA .... my son has most of his experiments eight voice of what sounds like yours also Th,,,, give your husband and explain that by spoiling, s going to get teased at school if possible to act as if T, S 10, not 10 months ..... Good luck ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

femmenoi... said...

Sounds like your husband pampers the child then they should not. This will help the child to be immature, because they are not necessarily increase. In 10 -11 children should be able to take bumps, scrapes, no tears. It sounds like your son to do for extra attention and if that is true, then you have a situation of a child who is manipulative. Someone has to man. You have to uproot because it's not like Dad is a. If you need to be seriously injured, then you might point out that all her tears, a minor incident that makes him look like a baby.
It seems to me that if her husband wants a child is more mature than the kids do it but only what is expected of them. If the man is crying spells, then your child will have learned that you can get sympathy from his father at all.
You may have the sole and foot on the plate and help children to adulthood.
Good luck

tearsoft... said...

Here you find a counselor.

bbwbabe7... said...

I understand your frustration, but the remark appears to be acceptable, or irregular, which could harm your child psychologically

He is ready and mature, if a parent can never comfort as well as the child. They do not ask if you do not need to cry and just press

If you hard, you will find comfort in yourself, deal with his behavior, then let your husband, he

Nobody kill someone with love, but the faith of many killed Mans love for his father

I know its hard to let your child do what you do not want, but do not want the risk of injury?

Maybe, if it is less of a problem, then it might get less benefits. Id guess what happens, say more and more attention on the id, which is a good reason to back up a bit and see if it relaxes him. Hime pay more attention when you are not to ... Sounds like dealing with a child before we know, but believe me, my oldest son was a bit like him and hated his father

When his father he needed relaxing pamper momless and is now sufficiently mature and well as all his colleagues and he is now 12

Good luck

Fiona P19 said...

Hello,
I understand your concern. However, I would say that is normal in many ways. I am a mother of three children, ME, 13, 10 and 5 I am also a trained teacher for children and much older.
The thing is, they are not in public. They say that it is not in basketball or football. Thus, the public is not well at home alone.
All children grow at different rates. If I could another child who is very mature at 10 Also just before puberty, there is often a reveral youth behavior. back to normal! Suddenly they are facing and what can seem a very frightening world, with more bureaucracy, more responsibility, and so on. needs in order to love and comfort, a pwerson to be happy and healthy. This is just a phone call on this guarantee. I think how she could do worse, even if you do not think it is mother said he should "grow up" if he wants to see are just a little spoiled!
Children need pampered. If you can givellittle comfort, especially when he has made so much noise, then the rest could be reduced. For example, to embrace him when he does something, he straightened his room, or whatever. Children need physical comfort and safety as well.
If you have concerns, and can not judge me away from the situation if possible. Do not make a big deal. They are more of a problem if you are doing, but to leave the room and let your husband deal with it. I suggest you talk to her first husband, though!
He is young and will always be positive children snatched the children of today ... Over 30 girls are still playing with dolls at 13! So take it easy and do not worry. The law itself in its own time. Every child is different and he is still young.
I'd be more worried if you said you were 15!
Puberty in the front row for these years, and they have a baby "bit" in short ...
Be patient! Everything will be alright.
Good luck!

Tracy G said...

Patients honey I know its hard. Your husband should stop it as fact, and treat him like a father. Sounds like he is acting like the woman in the relationship. I have a 3 years, the 4 is turned around and my friend played rough from 1 days with him. It hurts physically, but plays in the fight against such things do not baby him. My son is now a lot of damage and not much to scream. Small bumps oww say and that's it. I am sure that your child will grow out of this, but your husband needs help and makes his mother hens. As for taking a few days off for you and get rid of some of his frustrations, and then come back for more.

Elena said...

also to reason with her husband, ur you try to sit together and tell him how you feel and tell him that the bird wants to fly, but will not be ready for that will hopefully help you, good luck

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